The Family Hub

The Family Hub provides support across Edinburgh to families whose children are not yet in an early learning and childcare setting.

we offer one to one support and Family Hub group work. see our poster for further information

This is a FREE service

Thank you Home Link Family Support

“I have a daughter who goes to Primary school in Midlothian where we live. Two years ago, I noticed that my daughter was struggling in many aspects of her life that I was concerned about. One area that she really struggled with was separating from myself in the mornings. There were many other factors that suggested to myself that she may be on the Autistic spectrum but was masking. I contacted my doctor who put me in touch with CAMHS for an initial assessment. This assessment ended in them telling me that my daughter just had anxiety. After a while things didn’t get better at home and I contacted the school. The school were really helpful and put Isla forward for art therapy with Home Link Family Support. My daughter had many sessions with the Art Therapist which helped so much with her confidence and explaining what makes her feel anxious. At the end of these sessions it was suggested in that she be referred for family counselling sessions again through Home Link Family Support. 

The systemic family counsellor first came to our house in April 2022. Over time they noticed that my daughter needed extra support and got in touch with the school to arrange a meeting about our concerns, which they also attended to support myself and my husband. This was a very productive meeting ending in the school referring my daughter back to CAMHS. A Helios assessment was done and they decided that she should have an assessment for ASD. 

I cannot thank Home Link Family Support enough for their support, their help, their patience but most of all their listening ears. I didn’t realise how much if an impact this was having on not only my daughter but myself. Not only was she in need of support, I was too and the family counsellor gave me that support when I most needed it. I have a great family support network but having them listen and validate what I have been trying to tell the school, doctor and CAMHS for the last few years was such relief. I felt like I was banging my head against a brick wall at times and they supported us to get my daughter that appointment with Helios and helped put in all the work so that we were more prepared for the appointment in terms of how the difficulties presented at home. The counsellor listened when no-one else would. They were exceptional at including us all to put down all the information on paper to support our worries and I will be forever grateful. Home Link Family Support is a much-needed service.  We would be no further forward without them. This service supports families like ours when they are at breaking point.”

Volunteer with HLFS

Could YOU make a difference to an isolated family with small children in Edinburgh?

We need volunteers for up to 2 hours per week, visiting families to offer practical and emotional support. Full training and travel expenses provided. 

If you wish to have an informal chat about the volunteer opportunities available please contact  0131 661 0891

Come Along to our Peep Group

Starting Wednesday 19th April 2023

Peep is for parents and carers with children. We share ideas and activities that support your child’s learning and development in everyday life – talking, singing, sharing books and playing together.

  • Who: Children from birth to two years old
  • Where: Westerhailes Education Centre
  • When: Wednesdays 10am to 11am

To find out more visit www.peeple.org.uk

To book a space contact Vanessa (07526 460 616) or Angela (07359 308 045)

We need new volunteers

During Covid our volunteers have been doing a incredible job supporting families from a distance.

They have been using the phone, Zoom, Whatsap, post and, whenever possible – meeting safely outdoors.

Would you like to join them?

We’ll train you and support you all the way.

We need you for about an hour a week.  You don’t need to be a parent.  You just need to be able to make a connection with an isolated family to offer a listening ear, encouragement and support.  It’s simple but it makes a huge difference to a parent who doesn’t have anyone else to confide in.

Our next training starts on Nov 17 2020, the next one after that will be in March 2021.

Have a look at more info here:

Application Form.

The benefits of having a Home Link Volunteer

“When our son was born three and half months prematurely, we knew that when we finally got him home, we would have challenges to face that most parents wouldn’t.  Our biggest challenge was that our son needed 24hr oxygen which meant he had to be connected to an oxygen machine with a nasal cannula taped to his face.  Since we needed to keep a very close eye on him to make sure he didn’t pull out that nasal cannula, which was at the time his lifeline, we found it very difficult to do simple chores and cook meals as we couldn’t leave him alone for long, even when he was asleep.

Our Health Visitor told us about Home Link Family Support and how they can help families like us, by matching us with a volunteer to give us some support.  After a referral, we quickly met one of the co-ordinators.  We discussed how a Home Link volunteer could help us and for our family, it was having a volunteer who could come and sit with our son in our home and look after him for a couple of hours once a week to let me (or my husband when I returned to work) get some work done around the house and cook healthy meals.

Within a couple of weeks Home Link had found someone they thought would be a match and after meeting her for the first time, we felt very comfortable.  Those two hours every week meant the world to me as a new mum with a baby on oxygen support.  I knew my son was safe and being looked after which gave me the confidence and time to cook healthy food for us and get some of those dreaded chores, like the laundry, done.  We had a great relationship with our volunteer and as he got older we could see our son enjoyed his weekly visits – he began to recognise our volunteer and would get excited when she would arrive.

We were lucky enough to have our volunteer for nearly 9 months and while the main benefit was to give me time to cook meals and clean, the added benefit was the development our son had from the interaction he had with our volunteer as she sang to him, played games with him and read him books.  That’s also the reason we started going to the Stay & Play group set up by Home Link. It was another option for bringing development opportunities to our son but also a place where we could meet other parents, some of whom are also Home Link families and who also faced additional challenges with their new families.

We would highly recommend Home Link Family Support and the service they provide, it made such a difference to us at a time when we really needed it and we are very grateful for that.“

Sharing Books and Reading together

Children are never too young to start sharing books and reading together …

The two little ones in the photo were snapped engrossed in sharing a book together at Home Link Family Support’s Midlothian Stay & Play Group (Thursdays, 10.00-11.00am at Newbattle Community Centre). We were all fascinated to observe the two engaged in the book and interacting with each other for a sustained period. Note the position of the book! Our weekly Stay & Play Sessions always include story & song, along with lots of opportunity for play.

There are many reasons why it is important to share books and read together with babies and young children:

  • Sharing books, talking about the pictures and cuddling up close together will help build a strong and loving relationship between parent and child; babies and young children love the sound of their parents’ voices.
  • Sharing books, reading together, talking and listening develops the child’s social, environmental and mathematical awareness, numeracy and language skills. It is a good way of encouraging two-way communication, supporting the child to develop an awareness of the world around them, learn new words and increase their vocabulary.
  • Sharing books, reading together, talking and listening can help children learn how to understand and express their own thoughts and emotions.
  • Sharing books and reading together helps develop an awareness that pictures, symbols and the written word have meaning. Children learn how to handle books e.g. to start at the front, turn pages in order and work through the book looking at the pictures & reading from left to right.
  • Sharing books and reading together, will support your child as they continue to grow, develop and learn.

Remember, it is never too early to begin sharing books and reading together!

Useful websites:

Super Gran!

A mother of 2 boys speaks about the experience of having a volunteer ’Super Gran’ to visit once a week:

“Any parent or carer will know that having a child definitely changes your life and routine many wonderful ways.  Having a new addition to your family can require juggling lots of tasks and having an extra pair of hands can make such a huge difference.  Those extra pair of hands for me came from Home Link Family Support – we were paired with a wonderful volunteer who became a huge lifeline.

Our volunteer or as we used to call her ‘Super Gran’ or ‘Grandma Maria’ would come in to help me with my two children for a couple of hours every week.

No task was ever too big – I can’t actually ever remember her saying ‘no’ to anything.  The key thing was that I trusted her – within the year we developed a good relationship and I got to see that she truly cared. We spoke about lots of things from food to music, travel and family.

She worked very closely with my little boy who has additional support needs.  She played games with him; taught him how to use toys; helped with his feeding and much more.  At times she would help watch both my children (who were 4 years and under 1 year) while I did some chores around the house.  Knowing I had those 2 hours every week to quickly get a few things done was such a massive help.  Every Tuesday the boys would wait for her to arrive and greet her by the door.  She was so mild mannered, friendly and kind – she would sing to them and they loved seeing her.  She almost became part of our family.

Having a child with additional needs has extra challenges – but this was never a challenge for Maria.  She saw the child before the disability.  She would help me to get to appointments or play with the boys into the garden.

What blew my mind was the fact she was doing this for free.  I was always taught that nothing in life comes for free. However, Home Link Family Support gave this service to my family for free.  Home Link harnessed their skills as a charity organisation to bring together volunteers and developed these wonderful individuals’ skills to become volunteers to support families, such as mine.  Words can’t express how grateful I am.

I hope that Home Link Family Support can continue to do their amazing work – supporting children and their families.

Thank you”

J

Occupational Therapy within Home Link and the Third Sector

As I approach the end of my time at Home Link and reflect on my experience, I realise the value of Occupational Therapy (OT) embedded within the third sector.

For those of you who don’t know, Occupational Therapy is a unique profession which focuses on providing practical support to people and empowering them to overcome barriers that prevent them from doing activities (or occupations) that they find important.  These occupations could be essential day to day tasks such as self-care, work/school, or leisure/play.

Traditionally, Occupational Therapists have worked mainly within the health and education sector.  However, according to The College of Occupational Therapists, a growing number of OTs are now found in other innovative places – such as children and families charity services.

My time at Home Link has enabled me to see first-hand the value of Occupational Therapists working in these types of settings. As Bergson (a fellow OT) puts it, “We are active problem solvers, dual trained in both physical and mental health, take a strengths-based approach and naturally work across the health, social care, and third sectors.” These traits are all of great importance to clients, who often have complicated backgrounds and multiple barriers preventing them from maintaining their health and wellbeing.

At Home Link I have worked with families who struggle to access community services and feel they are stigmatised by society. They are balancing social and economic disadvantage whilst trying to raise their children to grow and develop into positive and confident adults. Families can become easily overwhelmed by their circumstances which can lead to breakdowns in their family systems and challenges in completing basic living skills.

My role at this organisation has been developing since I started here, but with my Occupational Therapy hat on I have been able to support children and families to develop daily routines, have worked with them to set meaningful and realistic goals, have supported families to access services and resources, and have empowered them to begin to engage and balance all the different occupations in their lives. In its entirety, I have helped families build confidence in themselves and confidence in each other, increasing their wellbeing and quality of life.

My work at Home Link has truly proven that there is a huge role for Occupational Therapy in third sector organisations. Occupational Therapists have core skills which can support the prevention of crisis and positively make a difference to marginalised groups in society. I hope in the future, professionals like myself will continue to seek out roles that are non-traditional in the OT world. In doing so, we can continue to serve the people that are desperately needing active Occupational Therapy support.

Reference

Bergson, K. (2016, February 3).
There’s a place for occupational therapy beyond councils and the NHS.
Retrieved from www.theguardian.com